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Accommodation Is Not a Shield From Criticism
An employee with a chronic condition can be held accountable at work. But it should be about their performance apart from their illness.
The Freedom of Caring a Little Less What Other People Do
Sure, you wouldn’t vape on a Zoom call or hold an office retreat at someone’s condo building, but it’s not the end of the world...
Some People Get to Stay Home. Get Over It.
It may seem unfair that your colleagues have been granted an exception, but resenting them won’t get you a remote-only job.
When the Water Cooler Is a Perk
Yes, you deserve a way to stay hydrated at the office. No, your boss isn’t crossing a line by calling you during the work day.
Don’t Skip Therapy Because of Work
And other tips on asking for what you need, and making it clear when it’s a demand and not a question.
My Promotion, Her Problem
How to navigate your own path without apologizing for the room you deserve to take up in the world.
The One Thing You Can Control at Work Is You
Express yourself and your identity in a way that is comfortable to you — and do your best to ignore everything else.
You Don’t Get Office Birthday Cake Over Zoom, Sorry
Missing a celebration may feel awkward. But leave the boss out of it.
Work Advice: Coming Back From Paternity Leave, and Negotiating Boundaries
From not working when you shouldn’t to needing your manager to show some common decency, it’s OK to stick up for yourself.
Should Mental Health Be on the Agenda With Your Boss?
A general awareness of how people are coping is one thing. Sharing specific personal details crosses a line.