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I Used a Slur for Accuracy When Repeating a Joke. Why Is Everyone Upset?

A reader asks whether she has to apologize after recounting a joke that used racist language in front of her son’s friend, who later said...

My Husband’s Children Stopped Talking to Him After They Saw His Will. Help!

A reader’s adult stepchildren want nothing to do with her or their father after learning that the couple plan to leave their estates to each...

My Boyfriend Wants a Prenup. Can I Say No?

Put off by her fiancé’s request for a prenuptial agreement after years of paying her own way, a reader is finding that resentment is crowding...

I Knew My Father Cheated. Is My Parents’ Divorce My Fault?

After witnessing her father at a motel with a woman who was not her mother, a young reader describes experiencing near-daily guilt about not having...

Why Is My Boyfriend Pursuing Other Options After Planning a Summer With Me?

A reader is left to make new arrangements after learning that her boyfriend, who had agreed to live with her for the summer, was jockeying...

Is My Daughter Horrible for Refusing to Release Me From Her Student Loans?

A reader eager to be freed from $100,000 worth of co-signer responsibilities seeks a judgment on her daughter’s behavior.

My Husband Is Obese. Can I Refuse to Buy Him Fattening Snacks?

Eager not to participate in his husband’s junk-food habit, a reader hesitates to draw a line in the sand, stung by memories of disagreements over...

After Years of Dementia, My Boyfriend’s Wife Has Died. Now What?

A reader who has been dating her boyfriend for a year is unsure of how to negotiate his grief over the death of his wife,...

The Boss Paid for Dinner, and Then Complained the Next Day. What Do We Do?

An email from her husband’s visiting boss about a higher-than-expected charge from dinner rattled a reader enough to send a check. Was it an overreaction?

My New Boyfriend Offered to Pay Off My Credit Card Debt. Help!

A reader doing battle with 25 percent annual interest is tempted by her boyfriend’s offer of an interest-free loan, but she worries it may be...