

Philip Galanes
Posts

Can I Exclude My Scamming Sister From Our Christmas Dinner?
Years after traveling cross-country for her sister’s “fake wedding,” a reader feels slighted as both a guest and a taxpayer — and in no mood...

How Can I Stop My In-Laws From Making Impromptu Visits?
Now that her children’s grandparents have a second home just a few minutes away, a reader finds herself struggling to keep up with (or politely...

How Can I Get My Adult Siblings to Care About Our Ailing Mother?
On the hook for the lion’s share of care for her homebound mother, a reader wonders how to get her out-of-state siblings to pick up...

We Spied on Our Teenage Daughter With a Hidden Camera. Now What Do We Do?
Parents who installed a camera in the eye of their daughter’s stuffed bear ask how — and whether — to come clean about their surveillance...

Is It OK to Send Condolence Notes to Strangers?
A mother feels an urge to send her sympathies to the family of her son’s classmate who recently died, but she worries it could be...

I’m Estranged From My Best Friend but Still Invited to Her Family Holidays. Help!
A reader feels conflicted about attending celebrations as a friend of the family when the woman who was her original connection won’t be there. Should...

My 75-Year-Old Husband Wants Sex Every Day. What Do I Do?
A reader feels frustrated by her husband’s daily expectations of sex, which she worries may be a sign of something more troubling.

We Don’t Want Kids at Our Dinner Parties. Do We Have to Include Them Anyway?
A couple is eager to be closer with their new friends, but they worry that insisting that guests arrange for child care will start the...

How Can I Get Myself Invited to My Husband’s Family Parties?
A new wife is eager to join in the fun after her husband and brother-in-law wrap up their weekly jam sessions, but she’s reluctant to...

Should We Keep Paying for Our Ungrateful Son to Join Us on Family Vacations?
Unsatisfied with her middle-aged son’s meager displays of gratitude, a reader wonders whether to stop footing his bill for a yearly camping retreat.